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Moonshine Entry #695306, added on 05-05-10 @ 5:31 pm EDT
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| Unreasonable people | Entry #695306 |
So I am still dumbfounded by the chaos that one woman can make in peoples lives. I have never really had to deal with unreasonable people before. When I say unreasonable I mean someone who can't use reason, be objective, put themselves in another persons shoes, or be reasoned with in any way. And the reason I have never had to deal with these types of people before is because I just don't. If they appear in my life I ignore them and eventually they go away. This time though, I don't think that is going to be the case. The guy I'm dating, his ex-wife, she is whacked. If I continue to date this guy that means this woman remains in my life. I'm dumbfounded. How can such a nice guy marry and have three children with such a person? Granted, she is beautiful! Model material for sure. Actually she does do modeling. She is a natural blonde and stunning. BUT she is a crazy person. He told me about her when we first started dating. I listened but had the thought in the back of my head "It takes two" so I withheld judgement and I encouraged him to be nice, to understand where she is coming from instead of taking what she actually said to heart. I mean, I've been a single mother most of my life. I understand how hard it is and how crazy kids can make you act. He warned me that talking with her only leads to drama. HE WARNED ME. I thought he was overreacting. That he had some issues also.
Then it happened.
I think I first really noticed it when he texted her "would you like me to pick up the kids at school today?" And her response was "FUCK YOU". I'm like "What?" He showed me all the texts that had exchanged between them for the past couple days and there was nothing that was in the least bit inflaming.
From there it got worse. Much worse.
I was dragged into the mix where she was telling her kids that their dad didn't love them anymore because I was in his life. She said that he loved me more than them. That's what the five year old told me in hushed whispers. It broke my heart. I mean, who tells their kids that? And why? They have been divorced for five years.
He confronted her about that and she admitted she told the girls that because "it's true" and she doesn't lie to her kids. I mean WTF?
I'm dumbfounded.
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