Logocentric (adj).Regarding words and language as a fundamental expression of an external reality (especially applied as a negative term to traditional Western thought by postmodernist critics).
Sometimes I just write whatever I feel like. Other times I respond to prompts, many taken from the following places:
I'm very fortunate to have met some practicing and humble Christians. Truly humble people seek to serve, not attain power and influence. The actions of many Christians make me run the opposite way... as fast as I can.
In his book, Sit, Walk, Stand, Watchman Nee states: "Nothing has done greater damage to our Christian testimony than our trying to be right and demanding right of others. We become preoccupied with what is and what is not right. We ask ourselves,' Have we been justly or unjustly treated?' and we think thus to vindicate our actions. But that is not our standard. The whole question for us is one of crossbearing".
Jeff, this is an excellent book. Perhaps one for your reading list?
I learned to cook from cookbooks (no such cooking happened when I was growing up...we were given McDonalds, or...nothing much at all). Once learning to cook, I used to, when my kids were growing up, cook Thanksgiving and Christmas meals completely from scratch. Now that they have grown, not so much is from Scratch.
I taught my husband what I know. We joke that he will be able to survive on his own, once I am gone. ;)
I would so love to learn the Art...and I am sure that it Is an Art, of cooking Asian dishes. Yummy! I am sure that I could learn, with much TIME and ERROR...sigh.
Annette, the movie that I co-wrote is called The Right Girl. It shows up from time to time on cable TV channels like Lifetime and Hallmark, and I think it's currently available on an off-brand streaming service as well.
Ours has a tendency to shut off halfway through baking potatoes....YES, we bake our potatoes in the microwave, as it Used to be quicker than other means.
Now, what with 5 minute intervals of it needing to shut off, every ten minutes...sigh.
It looks like we will soon be purchasing a New one that we will need to...Figure out how to navigate.
January 21, 2026: What do you think is the hardest part of being a Christian?
I have two responses to the question of what the hardest thing is about being a Christian: a theological response and a more practical response.
From a theological standpoint, the hardest part about being a Christian is clearly living up to the example that Christ set, and the example he wants us to set for others. The tenets of Christianity are well known and oft repeated, but there are precious few people who can actually live up to turning the other cheek, extending mercy and radical forgiveness, and loving one's enemies. Most of us struggle with even the simple edicts of the religion, like setting aside ourselves and following Jesus with all our hearts.
The core theology of Christianity is incredibly countercultural, and nearly impossible to achieve even under ideal circumstances, to say nothing of the broken, sinful world we actually live in. It's quite literally impossible to live a sinless life like Jesus did, but the pursuit of and striving for that unattainable objective is the central thesis of the religion. So to the question of what the hardest part of the Christian religion is, it's ... *gestures at all of it*
From a practical standpoint, I think the hardest part about being a Christian in today's context - at least from my perspective as a nondenominational Christian in the Western world - is seeing others misrepresent Christianity to others, and seeing the damage it causes. Christianity has been co-opted by special interests who would use it as a justification (or excuse) for their own ends, and I include a lot of church organizations themselves in that accusation. Evangelical Christianity has become a political project for some, and a means of achieving wealth and status for others. And I've seen firsthand the kind of damage that has been done to people, especially the marginalized and downtrodden - you know, the type of people that Jesus was kind of famous for actually helping - in His name.
Whenever I see Christians identifying with the conservative right of the political spectrum, or the anti-LGBTQ+ movement, or even taking advantage of their tax exempt status for the purposes of financially benefiting their clergy, it makes me sad because I just know that it's reinforcing the worst stereotypes about Christians being insular hypocrites who want to behave badly while telling everyone else how to live their lives. And it worries me because it furthers the narrative that Christians are just like everyone else: seeking influence and wealth, and defining their success by how much power they can wield against their perceived enemies.
Christianity has always functioned most effectively when it's the underdog. When it's the response to a terrible status quo and offers a different, better way to live. Once Christianity becomes the default, once it becomes the status quo, it starts exerting power like the status quo and trying to protect that power. When you look at it like that, maybe I'm wrong about the practical response to this question. From a practical standpoint, maybe the hardest thing about being a Christian is continuing to live out the tenets of your Christian faith once you've attained the influence and power that you've been seeking.
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