Brandiwyn🎶, also known as Michelle Tuesday, is a musician, educator and writer hailing from Columbus, Ohio.
La Bene Vita
You Are Welcome Here Life is good. Let's share it.
New Year, New Strategy For 2026, I launched a weekly topic rotation designed to help me stay d i s c i p l i n e d while ensuring that you, the reader, always know what to expect. Unfortunately, I have yet to acquire a million followers and gain official WDC "influencer" status, and I often find myself seduced by whimsy. Thus, my blogging strategy continues to evolve.
So, What Can I Expect?
I'm glad you asked. For now, until whimsy strikes again, here's what you can expect (updated March 2026):
Weekly Theme Posts Music & music education The art and business of writing Owning & managing a small business Science & technology Parkinson's disease, type 1 diabetes, and other medical topics
Personal News & Updates Health news Family, work and leisure
The Occasional Rant
Although I try to post rants at "What the Fork?" (and you should, too!)
Newly Written Works
When I check off completed writing goals, I'll share the fruits of those labors, if applicable.
Weekly Goals & Progress
I'll establish work and writing goals every Monday and touch base throughout the week.
Ah, DBS. I am well aware of it thanks to my employer. Even though I work in the IT world of med tech, there are still lots of opportunities to learn the basics if things like DBS. We'll see if I can get back to that kind of extracurricular activity anytime soon.
PD research is very well funded, so I'm sure opportunities are there. I have a piano student, Lily. She's 16, but she was 5 when her mom enrolled her, so I've been her teacher more than a decade. Her mom is a doctor, and Lily has decided she wants to study neurology. She knows about my diagnosis - all my kiddos do, so they understand why my voice doesn't work sometimes, why I can't play the instruments I used to, why I drop everything to take meds, etc. So she was super excited to tell me that when she went to Neurology Summer Camp (!!!!!!!!!!), she got to watch a DBS procedure on a Parkinson's patient, live. (!!!!!!!!) This was probably two years ago, so she was 14 or 15 at the time.
For those who don't know, DBS = Deep Brain Stimulation. Until very recently, the procedure could only be performed while the patient is awake. They screw your head into a halo that holds your head still, then implant an electrode in your brain. Some patients require two implants (one for each side, two separate surgeries), and either way, you have to have yet another surgery where they implant the battery in your chest. Sounds like fun, amiright?
In case you're wondering, my MDS said today that I'm the PERFECT CANDIDATE for DBS because I respond so well to levodopa. I'm like.......... thank you? The good news is, there's an option where they knock you out now.
Brandiwyn🎶 Cool! Yeah, a PhD in Neurobiology. I'm a research scientist / data scientist, worked in a lab at a research institute. Very niche, I know. I'm actually trying (and failing) to break out of the academic research trap. Unless you're a tenured professor, it's a very poor career choice. And, turns out, not terribly useful in the real world. Who knew?
But yeah, I really did enjoy the subject and the research. I'd like to go in a more clinical direction so I can actually help people with diseases like Parkinson's. Especially when I read first hand accounts like yours and Carol St. Ann 20yrs (06-26).
Ѧͷͷΐ- That's awesome, and I'm very interested in your project. I speak science and data analysis, lol. My degree was chemical engineering. Did you earn a degree in Neurobiology? What do you do professionally?
Carol St. Ann 20yrs (06-26) - I'm sorry to hear that. I was diagnosed four years ago, but misdiagnosed with Essential Tremor three years before that, and I'd had a mild tremor for a few years at that point. So I estimate I've had symptoms for ten years. Please let me know if you have questions, any time.
Vocally, I started to slip under pitch. Now, I can look back and realize my breathing was getting shallower. My advice is to keep singing as much as possible, and add breathing exercises to your daily routine. I used my voice less and less because it didn't sound good anymore, which was depressing, but by the time I was diagnosed with laryngeal dystonia and prescribed Botox treatments, I had also developed vocal fold atrophy.
Did the neurologist who diagnosed you do a UPDRS evaluation on you? What tests or symptoms did they identify to support the diagnosis? Are you doing anything to treat it yet?
And if you're allergic to exercise like I am, GET OVER IT, pronto. Exercise is the only thing proven to slow or stop progression. If your symptoms are mild now, exercise is how you can keep it that way. 30 minutes, 5x per week, elevated heart rate. If you are allergic, I wouldn't mind an exercise accountability partner. I've been lax over the winter. And by lax, I mean lazy.
Michelle, I've recently been diagnosed with Parkinson's and am only starting my journey. I am a singer, and my voice issue plus a faint, very faint morning internal tremor is what sent me to the doctor for more than my yearly physical.
That is good news! 8 is a great score. I actually know quite a bit about Parkinson's from my studies in Neurobiology. I even did a project where I created a data model to predict a patient's UPDRS using vocal metrics from noninvasive home recordings. Since, as you said, it's primary a motor disorder and the vocal chords are a muscle. How about that for a coincidence!
(The model didn't actually work THAT well, but a good concept.)
Storm Machine - no, because ironically, we don't teach left-handed lessons. Both hands are required to play all the instruments so we just start training the muscles to do their respective jobs right from the start. The only mention of left-handedness in the blog I think is Taylor Swift's bio. But because it's Taylor Swift, that page gets a lot of traffic.
I have no idea if Jim Carrey is left handed. Definitely haven't blogged about that either. Why do so many left hand queries end up in your blog? Are you the left hand of music?
Should we blog about lefty music lessons to lean into it?
Yesterday, I had my six-month followup with my Movement Disorders Specialist (MDS), neurology nurse practitioner, Jessica. She appreciates my tech savvy, and I feel more like a collaborator than a patient with her.
What is Parkinson's Disease?
PD is an incurable, progressive, neurodegenerative movement disorder caused by the death of the brain cells that make dopamine. Since dopamine is required to execute muscle movement, the disease is neurological, but it manifests in the failu... [Read more]
As we close up another week together on Planet Earth, I thought you might like to hear about dramatic Netflix productions highlighting two of the worst things that ever happened on our shared planet: (1) the Holocaust, and (2) the asteroid collision that caused the extinction of almost all of the dinosaurs.
Nuremburg (Netflix)
A two-and-a-half-hour movie starring Russell Crowe as the Nazi second-in-command and war criminal Reichsmarschall Hermann Goering, and Rami Malek as the US Army... [Read more]
A few months ago, I fired the digital marketing company who recently took over for the company who had been managing my digital advertising for years. The details of all that are a topic for another day, but today, that leaves me trying to figure out - again - how to use Google Ads without the help of a consultant.
By now, it should be easier than it was the last time we tried to do it ourselves. Alas, it is not .
But I'm trying to learn and understand, and one step I took was to ins... [Read more]
I'm so close to completing my current assignment for ! I just need to write one review tomorrow. On a related note, I love the Review Tool update. I also love the snippets! I formerly used forum-specific or book-specific signatures, but the snippets are much more flexible.
Keith and I watched the Steal pilot on Prime Video per 's suggestion. So far, so good! I could tell you about it, but why reinvent sliced bread? Read what Jeff had to say here:
Goals are below. I added... [Read more]
Keith and I binged all 8 episodes of 56 Days on Prime Video over the weekend.
On the plus side, the storytelling was gripping. We wanted to watch more episodes on Saturday, bedtime be damned, but there were enough episodes remaining to convince our practical side to wait. The key driver of tension is not actually whodunnit so much as... who died? Sooo many red herrings, twists and reveals in that department.
I also liked the way the story follows the lives of both the suspects and th... [Read more]
...because it's the day we celebrate the end of February!
Almost as if my whole body recognizes the achievement, I had a kick-ass night of sleep last night.
If you've been here before, you've surely noticed I've been using my blog to keep track of my progress against goals. Even when I blog about something else, I close each post with a goals update. It's just a good place to document daily and weekly successes for future reference (and they should be documented ... [Read more]
This is an excellent read: . I'm calling the genre "Contemporary Gothic" because I love a good oxymoron.
On a related note, , you may have met your match in the procrastination department. (You read that correctly: it's definitely a gauntlet.)
I told you all a couple weeks ago that my voice was back. I didn't know it at the time, but I meant it was starting to come back . It's been coming and going in the way that summer and winter in Ohio come and go duri... [Read more]
In , we talk about our character's goal and the conflict that's standing in the way of achieving that goal. In 1996, Debra Dixon invented the {v3-link:"GMC Method of Storytelling"}http://www.debradixon.com/books/gmc.html{/v3-link}, which posed another character element critical to any good story: motivation. Where the goal is what your main character wants, their motivation is why they want it. And at some point, someone added an "S" to the end (for "stakes... [Read more]
Web News
My last business website revision was 2016, so it was way past time. I started building a new one in 2025, finished it summerish, then couldn't easily migrate it. Stymied, I let it sit and cool off for about seven months. I broke it out again sometime in February (it all runs together, see for my opinion on February), but there's always a debugging period, so I'm still tweaking.
One thing on my list is to go through my 2k+ photos in my media library, eliminat... [Read more]
What the Fork?
Earned a Quill Award for Best New Forum (thanks for your votes!! ) and got a shiny new logo and cover art:
Trinket Poll
Grab a freebie trinket and cast your vote:
Entertainment
Sunday has turned into our official binge day, which is bad because that cuts into my writing and WDC activity time! but good because hubby and I hang with the poochies.
Comments about our latest binges/attempts:
The Hunting Party
One of the wors... [Read more]
There's been so much cool news at WDC in the past twenty-four hours that I just don't have much else to say. But I did want to log a quick Goals update for future reference. It's a pretty good goals week.
Goals for 2/16/26 - 2/22/26
Min 10 min/day on current novel -
Review work tasks list 3 days/week -
Two poems for
-
-
One short story for -
One themed blog post (mus... [Read more]
This post was generated by Google Gemini. It was also my first attempt at using "Columns" in the beta editor, and they're currently broken. I'm leaving them that way to file a bug report. I'm happy to report that SM fixed the columns.
PROMPT:
How did people wipe their bottoms before toilet paper was invented?
It turns out that "the good old days" were many things, but "soft and quilted" was definitely not one of them. Before Joseph Gayetty... [Read more]
Today's post is mostly a goals check-in.
If you're not opposed to XGC content, I wouldn't mind one or two more reviews for .
If you're a serial novelist, I'm interested in your thoughts about this conversation: .
Goals are on target. I'm happy with them.
Goals for 2/16/26 - 2/22/26
Min 10 min/day on current novel -
Review work tasks list 3 days/week -
Two poems for -
One short story for - ... [Read more]
I did a thing:
My first-ever attempt at horror, inspired by . Warning! Mind the rating. It's legit.
That fulfills last week's short story requirement, so I'm caught up, at least. Also, as a background story in my project, this story is keeping that project in front of me, even if it doesn't specifically check of any boxes.
It may have turned my Druid Archives world a notch or two darker.
Today is Tuesday. I have no students on Tuesdays and Sundays, making t... [Read more]
Just a quick goals update today. I played in the worship band this morning (rare these days), napped, did my daily games brain exercises, napped, then worked on rereading and editing my current novel project for a few hours. Still no Bradbury story, but I may still crank one out before sleep, after Netflixing with the hubs.
Goals for 2/9/26 - 2/15/26
Min 10 min/day on current novel - I made up for it today. I've been editing.
Review work tasks l... [Read more]
As a contest owner, I've been grappling with this. I've tried to remain neutral and avoid rules around AI use in my activities, but fairness is ingrained in my bones. I fully support (and enthusiastically encourage!) AI for brainstorming and wording suggestions. But, in my opinion, once it rewrites what you wrote - tightens your prose, increases your pacing, and changes the voice of the author - even if it doesn't change the story itself, those paragraphs are no longer your original... [Read more]
I missed Main Character Mondays yesterday. Oops.
At the music school, the hot water heater died. I got a quote from a plumber to replace it. It's up in the loft above the bathrooms, accessible by ladder in the music lab, and I swear the building was built around the stupid thing. It's surrounded by duct work and rafters, or whatever you call the metal framing that holds up the roof in a retail strip mall. The space was a coffee shop before it was a soccer store before it was a musi... [Read more]
One of the lesser frequently-asked question among prospective clients of my music school is, "How long will it take for me/my child to master the instrument?"
Um.
This question never ceases to baffle me. I try to look at it from the perspective of non-musicians who truly have no clue what's involved, but in my imagining, that only makes it worse. Looking from the outside at the task of studying an instrument, with zero music experience, it might seem almost insurmountable. Yet... [Read more]
I technically finished my story for after midnight (00:09? maybe), but I counted it, so here's the status of yesterday's goals:
Goals for 2/2/26 - 2/9/26
Min 10 min/day on current novel
Review work tasks list 3 days/week
Two poems for
One short story for
One themed blog post (music/writing)
One review
Current assignment for
Current assignment for
It's Friday morning. I have a ... [Read more]
Goals for 2/2/26 - 2/9/26
Min 10 min/day on current novel
Review work tasks list 3 days/week
Two poems for - in progress
One short story for
One themed blog post (music/writing/etc.)
One review
Current assignment for - in progress (1 of 3 complete)
Current assignment for
Health Notes
- My voice is coming back! After Botox injections in my vocal cords exactly 3 weeks ago, I've been w... [Read more]
I still haven't pinned down my blog topic rotation, but I may finally be closing in on my weekly goals list template for 2026.
Goals for 2/2/26 - 2/9/26
Min 10 min/day on current novel (thinking counts)
Review work tasks list 3 days/week
Two poems for
One short story for
One themed blog post (music/writing)
One review
Current assignment for
Current assignment for
Explanations
t... [Read more]
Well, I did write a blog post today. It's probably still queued up on my laptop downstairs, unsaved, and I'm snuggled in bed. I'm not devastated. The post was unfinished anyway, because I ran out of time and had to get to work and teach all evening.
But here's the gist.
I wrote goals for the week and tweaked my theme rotation, moving "Self" Sundays to "Main Character" Mondays, because Mondays are too busy for the Music theme and are also ideal for goal ... [Read more]
For today's episode of "Self Sundays," I started with a goals check-in.
Quick Goals Check:
One new novel chapter (or rewrite) per day. Incomplete.*
One short story for " Incomplete.**
Two poems for Submitted.
One review. Canceled this week, but tomorrow it'll be an empty box again.
Complete my Week 3 assignment. Pending.***
Do something with Done. See also:
Organize/prioritize work tasks. ... [Read more]
A little late to be blogging, but my list has exploded, and I'm trying to collect all the pieces and glue it back together so it's at least recognizable tomorrow..
Website Revision
I designed the revision months ago, but didn't implement it until last night. Now that it's implemented, it's taken over my life. There are so many tweaks to make.
*thinks*
There were more things on the list...
*checks list*
Quick Goals Check:
... [Read more]
This blog topic was the brainchild of a consultation with ChatGPT, in which I asked, "Please provide me with a list of 100 vocabulary words that would make a narrative more whimsical and quirky". In an ironic meta example of whimsy, the list proved useless, but the dialog turned into an epiphany and a brilliant word bank idea I found very useful, indeed.
If Not Whimsy, Then What?
The conversation that followed is too long to publish here. The short version goes like this: I dec... [Read more]
Y'all, guess what?! I worked on my novel today. Thank you, Snowmaggeddon, for shutting down my school for two days and forcing me to get bored enough to accomplish this.
You may be wondering what prompted my poll in the Newsfeed about your pronunciation of the word, "Query" (which I'm calling my "query query"). If you haven't yet voted, go here:
Meet Mystic, riddling cat and envoy of Air:
Seek not what is not yours to find, said the voice. ... [Read more]
Warning: I'm about to get political. And then I'm going to talk about soup. It's a typical Music Monday up here in the Brandiwyn Blogosphere.
I try to keep my virtual mouth shut on social media when it comes to anything political, for a couple main reasons:
1. I own a small business, which employs two dozen people. It makes practical business sense not to offend the people in my community - or in my employ - who support us.
2. I'm a legitimate fence sitter moderate. I... [Read more]
Recital
Saturday's recital went smoothly. One student had an attack of performance anxiety, but she performed by the end of the session and did great! We finished and hauled all the instruments and gear back to the music school just in time for Snowmaggeddon to hit. We collected a ton of food (likely 150-200 lbs) but can't deliver it to the food pantry yet due to the storm, so it's currently all over my music-slash-exercise room (all nonperishable, so it's safe so long ... [Read more]
My meds kicked in. I accomplished a thing, and I feel better. (See my earlier rant at : )
I wrote a short story using combined prompts from and , which also fulfills my Week 4 commitment for .
.
I'm all about efficiency.
Now, about that earthquake poem... and maybe my weekly Friday review? ... [Read more]
This is ridiculous. I don't know if it's the Parkinson's or just general malaise, but I'm off my game today. My shoulders and trunk are swaying with dyskinesia. I can't focus. I've started and restarted this post probably a dozen times, but I'm determined to write something , to document why I didn't achieve today's goal, if nothing else.
Today's Goal
Today is supposed to be "The Bradbury Thursdays" - meaning, I have a short story to ... [Read more]
For today's edition of "Writing Wednesdays," I'm opening a discussion on the topic of poetry.
Disclaimer
I have never claimed to be a poet.
As a writer, I consider myself first and foremost an author of long-form fiction (think, novel trilogy and higher.) I recently revised my bio to identify as a "Professional world-builder and prolific author of partially-completed novel drafts." I excel at the partial draft, y'all, but poetry has never really been m... [Read more]
Most people know that Martin Luther King, Jr., civil rights activist and Nobel Peace Prize laureate, was born the son of a Baptist minister in Atlanta. Did you also know how his musical upbringing connected MLK with his wife, Coretta Scott King and her family?
The Bride
Coretta Scott grew up in the small, segregated town of Heiberger, Alabama, where her parents owned a store. Her mother, Bernice, played piano at church. Coretta inherited her mother's musical talent: she was the l... [Read more]
Is it me, or are Sundays a little emptier around here than the other days?
First, my progress against writing goals. Then I'll tackle the "Self Sundays" list: Family, Leisure, Work, and Health.
Writing Goals
Blogged 5 of 7 days on WDC, but missed the topic "Writing Wednesdays"
Novel progress - wrote a little earlier in the week, but I do seem to be avoiding* it
Blogged Music Mondays topic at michelletuesday.com/blog
Wrote and submitted short story for... [Read more]
My Friday review goes to my favorite among my Cramp competitors. I highly recommend it. It's hilarious . Although, for the record, I read all of them, and there's honestly not a bad one in the bunch. Fierce competition today.
Also, I learned from 's story (which prompted a bit of Google research) that it's Lunar New Year's Eve today, kicking off the Chinese New Year. 2026 is the Year of the Horse. Happy New Year, if you celebrate.
Here is my ... [Read more]
I've been posting everywhere but my blog, so in case you missed any of it, here's what you missed.
A nerdy pre-appointment analysis for my doctor, including math, spreadsheets and graphs:
A formal complaint about my inability to maintain a schedule:
My completed Week 2 assignment for 26 Paychecks:
A short story for The Writer's Cramp and The Bradbury, which is also a background story for my stalled novel:
Pardon me while I frantically throw on some clean clo... [Read more]
I left Tuesdays off the blog schedule and had no intention of blogging today. Then the universe decided to throw me a day worth documenting. However, fair warning that this is literally a bullet-point list of my day and probably less interesting than yesterday's technical music theory analysis.
Yesterday, I went to get labs drawn and had a virtual endocrinologist appointment, then kicked off a full day of chaos at the music school.
Three of seven private teachers were absent, inc... [Read more]
The Internet - and Writing-com - are abundant with music-inspired writing. That makes me happy. But the majority of these creations were inspired by lyrics, not the actual music.
I invite you to consider letting the sounds of the music itself inspire you. I could write an entire book on the various ways we can compose and arrange musical instrumentation to represent life and emotions. But it's a busy day, so I'll start with the basics, and we'll call this Chapter 1.
Here are... [Read more]
I updated the contents of the Biography tab of my Portfolio and the introduction to this blog today.
Work:
At the music school, we wrapped up 2025 versions of all our logs, schedules, checklists, etc. and prepped 2026 versions. We closed the books for December and for 2025.
2025 was a terrible year for the school's profits.
Reasons:
- Our 7-year-old A/C died, and HVAC systems have doubled in price since we installed the last one in 2018.
- Our money guru had a stro... [Read more]
I changed my mind. (I'm allowed.) "Funny Fridays" have been canceled until further notice ( No jokes for YOU!)
Two reasons:
(1) My style of comedy is mostly improvisation, repartee, that sort of thing. I'm not even sure I can be funny on command (unless you're offering cake as a treat),
and
(2) I decided I wanted to carve time out for reviewing, and something had to go.
Friday Reviews:
...will happen, as implied, every Friday (unless I'm sick or... [Read more]
It's Thursday, so I owe you/myself/ somebody a short story.
On literally Day 2 of my new blogging schedule, and I slept off and on all day on the couch. The COVID and/or flu shot(s) I received yesterday were not well-received by my underprepared body. Therefore, my goal of blogging before lunch was not met.
However, you all didn't know about my self-imposed daily deadline until just now, and it's still Thursday, so here we are.
And with that, I give you:
Enjoy.... [Read more]
's blog post today inspired me to employ the scientific method to the following hypothesis.
Hypothesis : I suck at routine tasks.
Evidence :
Conclusion : Sometimes I accidentally meet all my goals, but "sometimes" =/= "routine", therefore, I do indeed suck at routine tasks.
Disclaimer: That wasn't actually the scientific method, since my "evidence" was anecdotal and a single data point does not a trend make. I could collect more data, but I could... [Read more]
I'm not a fan of resolutions. I understand why people make them: Goals are hard. They're hard to define and even harder to keep. And they're usually things we should be doing anyway, like making healthy choices, strengthening relationships, and completing tasks that either align with our passions or are required for basic survival. So we find a boost in the new year. Yet failure to keep resolutions beyond January is so likely that it's cliche.
Why is it so hard to do the t... [Read more]
I asked Google Gemini:
Are there any gadgets, tools or toys popular now that might be a more currently relevant metaphor than diving into a pool full of thumbtacks or razor blades
Here are the suggestions. They're so delightful that I just had to share. Feel free to use them (see previous post for more info.)
Diving into a pool of spam bots.
Hitting the 'Like' button on every cringe post from 2012.
Having your AirPods die right when the bass drops.
Swiping throu... [Read more]
"This second Part of the Copyright Office’s Report on Copyright and Artificial Intelligence (“AI”) addresses the copyrightability of outputs generated by AI systems. It analyzes the type and level of human contribution sufficient to bring these outputs within the scope of copyright protection in the United States. " - United States Copyright Office*
*full document linked at the bottom
I've been using ChatGPT and Google Gemini during the creation of my November novel ... [Read more]
Mostly, I just wanted this title as a callback to my previous blog post, but I guess it could foreshadow the plot of my current novel project. If you're worried about spoilers, you could plug your ears and shout, "La, la, laaaaaaaa!" while you read this post. But the truth is, I don't even know what all is going to happen in this novel (see my Notebook for all the havoc my characters are causing), so I can't possibly be revealing too much, here. If I do, I'll be as surpri... [Read more]
I just stumbled across my 2018 "Dear Me" letter, and this jumped out at me:
"Every year, you pledge to do better, to do more, to be more efficient, to stop wasting time, to complete more tasks on the never-ending list. Every year, you find yourself more and more exhausted."
Hindsight is 20/20 (although my vision isn't and wasn't; I started needing readers 3 years earlier when I turned 40 in 2015.)
Here's what I know now, that I didn't know then: I had Pa... [Read more]
Amantadine is a fun medication. In theory, it's supposed to help prevent my toes from curling under and my ankle from twisting. In reality it causes the weirdest, most vivid dreams and hallucinations.
Last night, I dreamed I was part of a research team living and working on the moon. The procedures to keep the habitat livable were strictly enforced, but we had a new kid who kept messing up. Every time he did something to compromise the air seal (which was not very elaborate - like, duct t... [Read more]
#scopecreepersanonymous
I asked ChatGPT and Gemini to review a short story I wrote. The feedback I got from both on various revisions pretty much defines me as a writer:
Gemini said:
This is a fantastic opening.
This revision elevates the story from a good setup to a very compelling narrative fragment.
ChatGPT said:
This is a polished and highly effective opening to a series or novel.
You should feel very confident in this draft. Are you planning to continue this st... [Read more]
In case I've never mentioned it, October is my busiest month. It's PrepMo, of course, which is busy even when I'm not actively participating, like I am this year. Also, my music school's most popular performance event happens the weekend before or after Halloween: Our annual Halloween Party Recitals.
Friday night is for adults and teens only. Saturday and Sunday afternoons are filled with performances from all our kiddos, plus Halloween activities like trick-or-treating from r... [Read more]
I'm not sure why or how poop became such a taboo topic.
Whenever someone acted holier-than-thou, my ex used to say, "his shit doesn't smell like roses." There's a reason he's my ex, but actually, none of us shit roses, so he kind of had a point.
We all do it. Some of us are better at it than others. My husband, for example, poops at 9:00 am for roughly 20 minutes daily, but he can easily adjust that time around his meeting schedule as needed, as if it's a valv... [Read more]