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My name is Joy, and I love to write.
Why poetry, here? Because poetry uplifts its writer, and if she is lucky enough, her readers, too. Around us, so many objects abound to write about. Once a poet starts with a smallest, most trivial object, he shall discover that his pen will spill out what is most delicate or most majestic hidden inside him. Since the classics sometimes dealt with lofty subjects with a lofty language, a person with poetry in his soul may incline to emulate that. That is understandable. Poetry does that to a person: it enlarges the soul and gives it wings. Yet, to really soar, a poet needs to take off from the ground.
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Daily Cascade
Since my old blog "Everyday Canvas " became overfilled, here's a new one. This new blog item will continue answering prompts, the same as the old one.
Cool water cascading to low ground
To spread good will and hope all around.
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September 16, 2025 at 1:32pm September 16, 2025 at 1:32pm
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Prompt: Role Models
"I'm not a role model... Just because I dunk a basketball doesn't mean I should raise your kids."
Charles Barkley
Which kinds of people, do you think, deserve to be role models, and who is your personal role model and why, if you have any?
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Charles Barkley was a fantastic basketball player and, at times, with his antics, he made us crack up with laughter. In his personal life, I'm sure he could be a good role model to a young person, although he probably didn't think so himself.
As for me, I don't know who could be my role model while I grew up because I liked several different qualities in each person. I also tried to emulate some fine virtues of my family members. One of them was my uncle who treated me as an adult and encouraged my meager writing efforts. Another was a high-school lit teacher who valued my work.
Coming to role models in general, we are as humans, from birth on, imitating creatures. First, we imitate our parents' and other people's speech patterns through our babbling. Then, we make their wishes, needs, likes, dislikes, and dreams our own as if they are blueprints for life.
Later on, during our growing-up years and even beyond, we are drawn to those who are put on a pedestal by society and fame. We may, for example, admire celebrities, athletes, titans of industry, or charismatic political leaders. We admire them for their talent, their wealth, their power, or their public persona.
Yet, although these people may have undeniable gifts, their successes might be narrow and unethical and sometimes without integrity. They might often fall short of deeper moral, interpersonal, or even intellectual virtues. I think, therefore, the kinds of people who deserve to be role models should be those who have inner, deep-seated qualities, rather than flashy, outward achievements. These individuals can teach us that true strength lies in character, not just in brute force or cunning.
In fact, true role models should be the people who are resilient with a growth mindset. They are the ones who choose the hard right over the easier wrong, even at a personal cost to them. They might be the whistleblowers, the quiet activists, and everyday citizens who speak the truth and stand up for those who are unfortunate and vulnerable. They might be the kind caregivers, dedicated teachers, community organizers, and innovators who genuinely try to improve the lives of others. This is because they understand that true leadership is only about lifting others up, and not about self-promotion and ego trips.
So, Charles Barkley may be a role model in his personal life or not, but if he is, it isn't because, as a NY Knicks player, he could dunk a silly ball into a silly hoop better than anybody. It is because in his private life, he may be the better version of himself with a genuine, inspirational character. I certainly hope and expect this to be the real truth about him.
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